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Dear Friends,
I'm so happy you're here! There are many layers to what you'll find here, and the most important thing is something we're profoundly in need of : A new narrative and experience of both/and spirituality that unifies us as individuals, in a miraculous world that is really real!
One that shows us how astonishingly real we are, and how significant the world is simply because it exists. A view that wakes us up to being more than just separate - simultaneously separate and one. To our personal selves being so much bigger, not smaller! More than personal, not subtracting anything vital, which diminishes our size, but adding in more of what we are, so expanding our consciousness reveals our wholeness, our universal nature, rather than replacing one limited view with another, keeping truth confined to the duality of being either this or that. Before transitioning to the glorious both/and, we must release ourselves from all dogmatic notions of Absolute Truth, freeing us to choose what will be true for oruselves so that unity consciousness may inspire flourishing in our inter-connected, fleeting, preciously sweetbitter lives.
Now we have a precious opportunity to unravel nihilistic non-duality and experience a uni-dual world in which can play a meaningful role in the universe coming to realize itself as us, experiencing ourselves not as the formless ground of Being we must dissolve into, but as that ground of Being blooming as human.
One that shows us how astonishingly real we are, and how significant the world is simply because it exists. A view that wakes us up to being more than just separate - simultaneously separate and one. To our personal selves being so much bigger, not smaller! More than personal, not subtracting anything vital, which diminishes our size, but adding in more of what we are, so expanding our consciousness reveals our wholeness, our universal nature, rather than replacing one limited view with another, keeping truth confined to the duality of being either this or that. Before transitioning to the glorious both/and, we must release ourselves from all dogmatic notions of Absolute Truth, freeing us to choose what will be true for oruselves so that unity consciousness may inspire flourishing in our inter-connected, fleeting, preciously sweetbitter lives.
Now we have a precious opportunity to unravel nihilistic non-duality and experience a uni-dual world in which can play a meaningful role in the universe coming to realize itself as us, experiencing ourselves not as the formless ground of Being we must dissolve into, but as that ground of Being blooming as human.
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You don't get to oneness by erasing yourself, that would be oneness with a hole in it! -Tim Freke |
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I hope I can help others by sharing how I freed myself from a de-humanizing, non-relational non-dual paradigm and offering an alternative to liberation through self-negation. I hope to experience something altogether different - uni-duality, in which the spiritual is the material and vice versa, and preciousness radiates from everything nihilistic paths degrade. Something extraordinary happens when we aren't focused on collapsing form into emptiness, but plugging our senses into the evolution of the ground of Being blossoming. A third thing emerges when opposites like oneness and separateness co-arise, with a shared revelation of being expressions of a universe that didn't come this far to simply dissolve back into it's origin, but to experience itself and love itself as human.
So many of us aren't aware (I was not!) that there are non-dual paths that don't begin where you end, and which show you how precious all of you is, including your personal self which isn't non-existent, but a real part of the greater whole of what you are, a whole that has a hole in it when you remove yourself from the picture. There are non-dual paths that reveal how our bodies, minds, souls are not illusions to overcome, but are manifestations whatever words you use for god. Paths that reveal how oneness has nothing to do with your non-existence as a person, and that since it's based on relationship, it has everything to do with your individual, "personal plus" presence. Yes, it relies on you and me being both separate and one at the same time. This is the wholeness that excludes nothing , instead holding more, not getting rid of "the ego" but healing unhealthy patterns and tending to the wounds that limit us with self-compassion. Paths on which we don't look through form to see its true nature, because we look right at its true nature as formlessness enformed.
Neo-Advaita/Nihilistic Non-duality Awareness
In tandem with exploring this new paradigm of non-duality, I'm compelled to spread awareness and encourage a wider conversation in the non-dual community about the dangerous pitfalls of Neo-Advaita, "insta-enlightenment" and other mis-appropriations of renunciate Eastern teachings by Westerners, by describing from my own experiences and those of many others, the new forms of profound suffering that await many of us who lose ourselves in them. This is a plea to join us in understanding which aspects of these teachings, that in the name of ending suffering, are inadvertently causing so much affliction, so that we can minimize the harm. This is the most compassionate response 🙏🏼
Myself and others have lost too much of our precious souls to it, and I re-emerged from my own ashes with a desire to help others avoid it by choosing richly human and relational alternatives, and support people in recovering from the damage done. This includes the possibility for conscious self re-construction.
I'd wanted to move on from the eventual horrors of Neo-Advaita completely, but after this extreme ego dissolution path which initially offered radical freedom, led to deep soul loss (and culminated in a spiritual emergency that blurred the line between mystic and psychotic) I've heard from so many people who realized that they too had made a deal with the devil, in which the sacrifices outweigh the gains, leading to profound new forms of suffering. Having discovered this, I want to give us a voice, sharing what we've been through and giving us a way to connect with each other, so that together we may evolve beyond degrading, nihilistic non-dual paradigms and welcome ourselves back into our hearts, minds and bodies.
Myself and others have lost too much of our precious souls to it, and I re-emerged from my own ashes with a desire to help others avoid it by choosing richly human and relational alternatives, and support people in recovering from the damage done. This includes the possibility for conscious self re-construction.
I'd wanted to move on from the eventual horrors of Neo-Advaita completely, but after this extreme ego dissolution path which initially offered radical freedom, led to deep soul loss (and culminated in a spiritual emergency that blurred the line between mystic and psychotic) I've heard from so many people who realized that they too had made a deal with the devil, in which the sacrifices outweigh the gains, leading to profound new forms of suffering. Having discovered this, I want to give us a voice, sharing what we've been through and giving us a way to connect with each other, so that together we may evolve beyond degrading, nihilistic non-dual paradigms and welcome ourselves back into our hearts, minds and bodies.
Stepping out on a Fall morning, struck by the very reality of the world. I hear Nisargadatta's voice echoing through time, "Refuse this dream the stamp of reality!" But I can no longer heed his call because today life is no longer just a dream, not a bubble to burst, but dramatically, mind-blowingly real, and in the light of this precious isness, everything radiates significance. My soul flutters with delight watching god interact with itself everywhere I look. Everyone a piece of god that contains all of god. Then, I hear Ram Das's lovely voice whisper, "Everything is god in drag!" but now it's not quite right, because now I see that god doesn't wear masks, and the world is not just an appearance. This world of form no longer conceals god, but reveals him/her/it everywhere, all of this is the revelation of god, it IS god expressing itself in infinite ways, god, the multi-faceted! I smile to myself because today I don't need to peel anything back or strip anything away to look upon god's (many) face(s).
Stepping out on a Fall morning, struck by the very reality of the world. I hear Nisargadatta's voice echoing through time, "Refuse this dream the stamp of reality!" But I can no longer heed his call because today life is no longer just a dream, not a bubble to burst, but dramatically, mind-blowingly real, and in the light of this precious isness, everything radiates significance. My soul flutters with delight watching god interact with itself everywhere I look. Everyone a piece of god that contains all of god. Then, I hear Ram Das's lovely voice whisper, "Everything is god in drag!" but now it's not quite right, because now I see that god doesn't wear masks, and the world is not just an appearance. This world of form no longer conceals god, but reveals him/her/it everywhere, all of this is the revelation of god, it IS god expressing itself in infinite ways, god, the multi-faceted! I smile to myself because today I don't need to peel anything back or strip anything away to look upon god's (many) face(s).
My trajectory, in a nutshell
Driving through the Arizona desert, I'm in the passenger seat staring out at the mountains slowly streaming by, trying to recall how it felt to merge with my surroundings back when becoming one with everything meant disappearing, meant swiping myself out of the picture and dissolving into thin air, becoming nothing and everything. Well, everything except for me, except for somebody. Only in hindsight can I say that most of the time when following those non-dual pointers, I wasn't actually becoming one with everything, I was disappearing into it and there's a world of difference between the two.....Read More
I am more interested in what we can do together than in what I can do alone. So please send collaboration ideas!
Send a message if you're interested in joining a peer support group for people harmed by nihilistic non-dual paths
As a Spiritual Emergence Coach, I'm certified by IMHU to facilitate peer support groups for those going through a spiritual crisis of any kind
Send a message if you're interested in joining a peer support group for people harmed by nihilistic non-dual paths
As a Spiritual Emergence Coach, I'm certified by IMHU to facilitate peer support groups for those going through a spiritual crisis of any kind
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