Non-duality, as the unity of opposites does not mean duality is unreal

Non-duality, as the unity of opposites, doesn't point to there being no duality but that source and manifestation are ONE and the same - meaning oneness and multiplicity are non-dual - reality is UNIDUAL! they are interwoven inextricably - the one has arisen as the many and they only arise together, yup just like yin and yang.

So when I experienced and thought of non-duality as no separation between anything and that separateness does not exist, I was missing out on delighting in the mesmerizing, whole-making paradox that the one IS the many,  expressing as it, so that form is AS real as formlessness because it IS it - but it is not reduced to it, it is formlessness literally enformed!

Because I did it too, and suffered the eventual consequences (along with benefiting in other ways) it's painful to see people struggling to destroy the robustness of their beautiful individualities yours is a sacred, individual personal expression of the universe - and when you know yourself as this, you want to explore your personal expression and shine the light of your individuality more, and see what Being can (and perhaps wanted to!) become as you.

"All is one and separate at the same time.
How you act when you are filled with this truth in your own original way--
that will be something worth seeing!"
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-Jason Shulman